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Survivor Truths: The Art of Reconciliation

Gina Laing and April Martin oral history

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This video contains descriptions of the sexual abuse April suffered. Emotional distress, including discussion of suicidal thoughts, is included.

The National Indian Residential School Crisis Line provides 24-hour crisis support to Survivors and their families toll-free at 1-866-925-4419.

For students needing support after engaging with this material, Kids Help Phone’s e-mental health services are available 24/7 across Canada at 1-800-668-6868.

Transcript

My name is April Thompson and I am the second oldest daughter of my mom, Gina. And my Indian name is Lyhot, my mom gave that to me, and I am the mother of five girls.

>>Gina: My name is Daisy Laing, everybody knows me by Gina, my name is Daisy Georgina and I’m the mother of five children, 16 grandchildren, and 4 great-grandchildren.

>>April: I grew up in Kildonan where she grew up. And I love the beaches and I love the woods and I love the water. And, so Kildonan is not only her home but it’s my home and I brought my girls up down there so it’s their home. So I knew the significance of the beach and her excluding the houses because of the pain that was in them. I am a survivor. I’m a survivor because of what a survivor did to me. The man that she was with, her second partner, a residential school survivor, had molested, raped and sodomized and tortured all of us with what he would call tea time. And he would drug my mom and he would come after us. And when my mom found out about this, years later, she went to school to find out about sexual abuse and she became a counselor for children who were abused. Her purpose was to teach us everything that she learned so that we could deal with things.

>>Gina: I wish I had been a good mother. I wish I had the skills to help my children through their difficult times. I wish that I could have guided them better. I wish all kinds of things.

>>April: I grew up with love. And my mom’s always said that she doesn’t know how to parent, but she knows how to love, so that’s how she brought us up. There are a couple points in my life that I’ll always hold dear. And one of them is a story that my mom told me when she went up the river and she went up to kill herself, commit suicide. And just as she was about to do it an awnoose, a heron, came squawking down and distracted my mom. And they look so graceful. And it went to land on a rock and it just slipped and fell and flopped, you know, ended up in the water and then crawled back out and then got up and stood like she was just a graceful bird that nothing had happened. And my mom looked at it and laughed and said, “Well if you can recover from that, if you can get up after that, then I can get up and I can keep going.”

The Robert Aller painting, “The Beach,” is like a piece that fit in the puzzle. And to me it holds a lot of significance because it’s light in a very dark place and to me I connect to her other paintings where she’s holding her light. I’m so thankful that Robert Aller came into her life. He taught her how to get there some way, that she can go out and express her feelings. And that’s how she heals now. My mom is my hero. And I live to honor her. I live to honor her and I bring up my children to honor her. For everything that she’s gone through. I just wish one day that I might be as strong as her.

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Activities

Think

Now that you have listened to the stories of these Survivors and explored the art they produced during their time at residential school, reflect on how these stories and artworks have changed you. 

What does it mean to you to have heard these individual stories and truths? 

What kind of feelings and emotions are you experiencing? Are you inspired? Angry? Shocked? Ashamed? Sad? 

How might these feelings inspire you to act or think differently about Canada and reconciliation? 


Do

Consider a way to share what you have witnessed through looking at the art and watching the Survivor’s video. 

Share what you have witnessed with a friend or family member. 

Write a paragraph or journal entry about what you have seen, felt and heard while listening to the Survivors’ stories. 

Create a piece of art that responds to what you have witnessed. 


Details

Date 2015
Object Origin Quebec
Materials
  • Film
Credit / Object Number CMH 2017.143

Historical Context

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  • April Martin is Gina Laing’s daughter. 
  • In this oral history interview with her mother, April describes growing up near the beach near Kildonan. 
  • April describes herself as a Survivor because of the abuse she suffered from her former stepfather, who was himself a residential school Survivor. 
  • April talks about how her mother’s art and healing have inspired her. 

  • April Martin is Gina Laing’s daughter. 
  • In this oral history interview with her mother, April describes growing up near the beach near Kildonan. 
  • April describes herself as a Survivor because of the abuse she suffered from her former stepfather, who was himself a residential school Survivor. 
  • April talks about how her mother’s art and healing have inspired her. 

Summary

  • April Martin is Gina Laing’s daughter. 
  • In this oral history interview with her mother, April describes growing up near the beach near Kildonan. 
  • April describes herself as a Survivor because of the abuse she suffered from her former stepfather, who was himself a residential school Survivor. 
  • April talks about how her mother’s art and healing have inspired her. 

Essential

April Martin is Gina Laing’s daughter. Gina is the mother of 5 children, and has 16 grandchildren and 4 great-grandchildren. 

In this oral history interview with her mother, April describes growing up near the beach near Kildonan. April describes herself as a Survivor; she was sexually abused by her former stepfather, who was himself a residential school Survivor. She also tells of how her mother overcame her own pain to become a better mother. 


In-Depth

April Martin is Gina Laing’s daughter. Gina is the mother of 5 children, and has 16 grandchildren and 4 great-grandchildren. 

In this oral history interview with her mother, April describes growing up near the beach near Kildonan. She remarks that her mother did not include houses in her painting, The Beach, because of the pain that happened inside them. Gina was sexually abused at the Alberni Indian Residential School, and also suffered physical abuse from family members (who had attended residential school as well). 

April describes herself as a Survivor; she was sexually abused by her former stepfather, who was himself a residential school Survivor. She also tells of how her mother overcame her own pain to become a better mother. Gina’s art therapy and ongoing artistic practice has played a significant role in that healing. 

“I’m so thankful that Robert Aller came into her life. He taught her how to get there some way, that she can go out and express her feelings. And that’s how she heals now. My mom is my hero. And I live to honour her. I live to honour her and I bring up my children to honour her. For everything that she’s gone through.” 


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